Malik said, "There is no harm in a
man's looking at the hair of his son's wife or the hair of his wife's
mother."
Yahya said that he heard
Malik say about dyeing the hair black, 'I have not heard anything
certain on that, and other colours than that are preferable to me."
Yahya said, "Not to dye at all is permitted, Allah willing,
and there is no constraint on people concerning it."
Yahya
said that he had heard Malik say, "There is no clear indication in
this hadith that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, did not dye his hair. Had the Messenger of Allah, may Allah
bless him and grant him peace, dyed his hair, A'isha would have sent a
message to that effect to Abd ar-Rahman ibn al-Aswad."
Audhu bi kalimati' llahi't-tammati min ghadabihi wa iqabihi
wa sharri ibadihi wa min hamazati' sh-shayatin wa an yahdurun.
Audhu bi wajhi'llahi'
l-karim wa bi kalimati'llahi't-tammati. Allati la yujawazu hunna barra
wa la fajir, min sharri ma yanzil min as-sama, wa sharri ma yaruju
fiha, wa sham ma dhara' fi'l-ard, wa sharri ma yakhruju minha, wa min
fitani'l-layli wa'n-nahar, wa min tawariqi'l-layli wa'n-nahar illa
tariqan yatruq bikhayr ya Rahman!
Audhu bi kalimati'llahi't-tammati
min sharri ma khalaq .
Audhu bi
wajhi'llahi l-adheem aladhee laysa shay'un adham minh, wa bi
kalimati'llahi't-tammati, alatee la yujawizu hunna barra wa la fajir,
wa bi asma'illahi'l-husna kulliha ma alamtu minha wa ma lam alam, min
sharri ma khalaqa wa bara'a wa dhara'a.
Abu Idris continued, "I waited for him until he had
finished the prayer. Then I came to him from in front of him and
greeted him and said, 'By Allah! I love you for Allah!' He said, 'By
Allah?' I said, 'By Allah.' He said, 'By Allah?' I said, 'By Allah.'
He said, 'By Allah?' I said, 'By Allah.' "
He continued, "He
took me by the upper part of my cloak and pulled me to him and said,
'Rejoice! I heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, say, "Allah, the Blessed and Exalted, said, 'My love
is obliged for those who love each other in Me, and those who sit with
each other in Me, and those who visit each other in Me, and those who
give to each other generously in Me.' " ' "